‘Sex addiction’ – David Duchovny

I did swear to myself recently that I wouldn’t write any more posts about celebrities and their mental health problems, but then David Duchovny started saying he’s a sex addict and I have a problem with this.

The word ‘addiction’ hasn’t an exact or agreed definition either within common or medical usage, but is normally applied to the use of psychoactive substances, and, called dependence syndrome; its use in psychiatry implies:

A cluster of psychological, behavioural and cognitive phenomena in which the use of a substance or a class of substances takes on a much higher priority for a given individual than other behaviours which once had a greater value.

For the diagnosis to be robust there needs to be accompanying evidence of difficulties in controlling behaviour despite clear evidence of consequences, and increased tolerance to the substance, a withdrawal syndrome and progressive neglect of alternative pleasures. A good example would be someone who is dependent upon alcohol; you can readily observe the effects, a complete deterioration of self control in pursuit of drunkenness, on a street near you.

An obsession with sex shares few of these characteristics, and its classification as a disorder offers a comforting cushion for those whose behaviour has landed them into trouble. With this narrative, wherein greedy behaviour is rebranded as a disorder, the afflicted can neatly sidestep responsibility and jump straight into the sick role.

Regrettably the more this line is trotted out by popular press, supported by some psychiatrist and psychologists, the more the approach is normalized and what develops is a popular narrative and language for describing behaviour in pseudo-medical terms that which would once have been viewed as an issue of self control and personal failing.

Wikipedia page

BBC Magazine – Does sex addiction exist?

Addictions.co.uk (sponsored by the Priory)

4 Responses to “‘Sex addiction’ – David Duchovny”

  1. Jeannie says:

    Please feel free to share this with your peers and readers

    http://www.cnn.com/2008/HEALTH/conditions/09/01/sex.addiction/
    When sex becomes an addiction
    By Elizabeth Landau
    CNN

    (CNN) — When actor David Duchovny made headlines for voluntarily entering rehab for sex addiction, fans of the “X-Files” star were left wondering: How can someone become addicted to sex?

    It turns out sex addiction, also called compulsive sexual behavior, operates somewhat like a gambling compulsion or alcoholism: It’s about devoting your free time to a behavior that you cannot stop, even if you damage relationships or prompt other negative consequences. Examples of addicting sex behaviors include extensively using pornography, having affairs, sleeping with prostitutes, and masturbating excessively, to the point where such behaviors get out of control.

    If you think it’s just about being horny, think again. For many addicts, sex becomes a way to numb out painful feelings, kill time or stop feeling lonely, said Kelly McDaniel, licensed professional counselor in San Antonio, Texas, and author of “Ready to Heal: Women Facing Love, Sex and Relationship Addiction.”

    “Most people I talk to get to the point where they don’t even like sex,” said McDaniel, who has no connection to David Duchovny and did not speculate about his specific situation.

    Sex addiction is estimated to affect 3 to 6 percent of adults in the U.S., according to the Mayo Clinic, but the American Psychiatric Association has not classified the condition in its diagnostic handbook.

    The Internet, providing endless opportunities for porn-watching and cybersex, has fueled a surge in cases of sex addiction, experts say.

    “We’re seeing it with epidemic proportions now, particularly with regards to cybersex,” said Mark Schwartz, psychologist and former director of the Masters and Johnson Institute in St. Louis, Missouri. “There isn’t a week that goes by where I don’t get two calls” about sex addiction.

    Therapists have recently seen more women with the condition in connection with Internet porn, which has become a “gender-neutral” addiction, McDaniel said. Before, female sex addicts generally tended to have affairs or become sex workers.

    Experts acknowledge that people who have affairs or use pornography are not necessarily sex addicts. Such pastimes form an addiction when they generate negative consequences for a person’s relationships, take over free time and become impossible to quit.

    Where does it come from?

    About 80 percent of sex addiction cases have sexual abuse or emotional trauma in their backgrounds, said Doug Weiss, therapist and executive director of the Heart to Heart Counseling Center. Schwartz also noted that huge numbers of people coming forward as sex addicts have been abused, assaulted or raped.

    “When you have abuse in your background, you’re less likely to trust people, [and] you’re more likely to turn to something like sex addiction as a manifestation,” Schwartz said.

    Feelings of neglect as a child — whether from divorced parents or parents who both worked and didn’t spend a lot of time with their kids — may also lead to sex addiction, Schwartz said.

    Research into the neuroscience of sex addiction has not been conclusive, the Mayo Clinic said. Naturally occurring chemicals in the brain such as dopamine and serotonin do contribute to sexual functioning, but it’s not clear how they are related to sex addiction. McDaniel said these two chemicals are lower in the brains of children who have suffered abuse, which may explain why some of them use their own bodies — or, in other cases, food — to increase dopamine and serotonin levels.

    For many people, especially women, sex addiction occurs in tandem with another problem such as an eating disorder, drug or alcohol addiction, McDaniel said.

    A lot of teenagers develop their sexuality with pornography and then find that relational sex isn’t as satisfying, said Weiss, who also called sex addiction a “growing problem.” He said extensive exposure to pornography alters

    How does treatment work?

    A good treatment center will review the reasons why the addiction has come about, along with the brain chemistry of it, McDaniel said. A premier rehabilitation facility would have a combination of individual and group therapy, 12-step support, and possibly psychiatric medications such as antidepressant medications if necessary.

    Withdrawing from compulsive sexual behaviors for an addict is very similar to withdrawing from cocaine, McDaniel said. An addict will go into withdrawal, and without a treatment program, it’s tempting to replace sex with something else, such as food or alcohol.

    “Treatment is long-term, and it’s not easy,” McDaniel said. “I really recommend that a woman or a man find someone who’s trained and understands that sex addiction is a brain disease and does not further the shame that comes with this disease.”

    Unlike drugs or alcohol, the goal of sex addiction therapy is usually not abstinence but rather learning to have sex in a relationship, experts say. Similarly, someone who recovers from an overeating disorder does not stop eating entirely but learns how to manage diet.

    Marriage counseling often becomes part of the treatment, Weiss said.

    What’s after recovery?

    Weiss considers himself a former sex addict, having recognized his problem in his early 20s. Women weren’t making him happy; he was using pornography and felt “in conflict” about it.

    Now, he runs resource Web site for recovery at sexaddict.com, along with three-day intensive workshops to jump-start recovery for sex addicts.

    Weiss said he’s proud of Duchovny for voluntarily seeking help, apparently without prodding from press reports or lawsuits.

    “This kind of person who decides to get recovery for themselves without getting exposed” is “likely to get better,” he said. “People who voluntarily get better have a much better chance of staying well.”

  2. OrganisedPauper says:

    Where’s the separation between hypersexual behaviour in say Bipolar disorder II and sex addiction? From my (very amateur) point of view the listed symptoms of sex addiction could just as easily apply to someone during hypomania.

  3. Frontier Psychiatrist says:

    There is a lot of overlap between the criteria of various psychiatric disorders.

    Bipolar disorder is primarily a disorder of mood, so if someone was to receive this diagnosis then they would have to have had periods of depression and mania.

    Also manic behaviour is reckless and affects many areas of functioning, whereas addictive behaviour is compulsive and focussed.

  4. OrganisedPauper says:

    Thanks for the info. I always wondered where the difference lay.

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